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Greatfullness is not…
Becoming a slave to the person you are grateful for.
This can become a slippery slope…
And…
Can lead to resentment and upset…
Ask me how I know…lol
In a world where we need other people to thrive it is easy to get caught up with this.
You start feeling obligated to a person…
Or a cause…
Or a job…
Or something else that doesn’t light you up.
Then you become resentful to the very thing you once loved.
Welcome to humanity 🙂
But…
There is a way out…
And it is through…
Communication.
You can honor someone and also move on at the same time.
Thank them for everything they have done.
Let them know how much of a difference they have made in your life.
Give them all of the love and generosity you can muster up.
And then move on.
Another fantastic tool to use is called…
Agreements.
This sounds simple but almost no one uses them.
Talk about everything before you actually get started.
What are your agreements with each other?
What are your agreements for a business?
What are your agreements in a relationship?
Almost no one talks about these things and then…
They get upset when something doesn’t go their way.
This is called….
Expecations.
And when someone doesn’t meet uncommunicated expectations…
Well…
We start sliding down that slope again.
Learn how to effectively communicate…
And…
How to manage your emotions…
And you can have anything you want!!
Cheers to another amazing day!!

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